SIDE EFFECTS OF SCHOOLING

 Normal schooling is not for all kids. Grouping is not good all time.Home grooming is the most important thing that we should follow. School routine should be structured within a small frame e.g 3 hours to 4 hours. The specially needed children are also fit for 3 to 4 hours classes. And the classes ought to be held for 3 days in a week. You should leave your child alone in a room first and observe what he is doing. Do it for 1 hour a day. Study his tendencies. Then think what should you do with your kid.

Children are full of energies, though he or she may be calm and slow or jovial and fast. Today's problem is that after a child is born,we start thinking about child 's schooling immediately . Leave him to enjoy the childhood days for 5 years, atleast. Then start thinking about schooling. Our social structure is very much problematic. It demands hankering after Money, marriage and divorce very fast, which is utterly dangerous for building up a character.

It's a wrong notion that proper grooming can be done by teachers only. A child should be taught how to sit and meditate at a quiet place. Then start training him with a slate and chalk. Let him draw scribbles first. Don't teach him how to hold the pencil. He will learn it spontaneously. Then tell stories which are full of morality and honesty. Then ask questions based on the stories told by you. Teach how to draw lines and circles then alphabets. Put importance on Mother Toungue,then teach The language like Hindi, English, Sankrit, Latin  and others. Start being a home tutor yourself. Let him play freely to release enough of energy.

 Extremely genius kids who focus on doing something creative, stop sending him or her to normal school. Let him test himself by home tutoring. If you are unable, hire a private tutor to teach English , Science, Maths etc. Yoga, Gymnastics ,Swimming, Dance, Martial Art is a must for every student. The excess of study pressure and peer jealousy can spoil your child's positive response and make him a bundle of wrongly treated energy. Be cautious about it.

Only the children who love to go to school should be sent to school. But Meditation is the first and foremost thing to do. Involve your child in self employment while growing up. Doing job actually needs practical training, not a certificate at all. Jobs are to be structured with Entrance exam , not with certificates of huge courses.Money, Time and Energy should be saved. Regular school days are wastage of these three.

There should be a compact Day school or Night school in our society. Children should be taught how to earn money honestly from the very beginning of life. Misuse of Talent,Time, Energy and Money ultimately creates Tension, Frustration and then Depression; not only of the child but of parents and other family members too. Doing nature study is a must for all. There should be a normal school where every subject is taught with a limit and care; to use it in daily life is the best lesson we need. 

We are needlessly destroying our mental and physical health by encouraging our ego. Correspondence courses and online classes are useful, they enhance our brain power, smartness, hardworking attitude, cognitive  capacity,concentration. So, stop for a while and think about these ideas. Every moment presents the opportunity to change our thoughts and deeds.