Soul Aesthetica

I have curly hair. So , most of the time I leave my hair natural , sometimes I make a horsetail. But I prefer to tie my hair leaving a little more hair open. When I wear Sarees I tie my hair in doughnut or use a catcher to hold it tightly. I have short length hair so long tail binding, pigtail is not possible with my hair.  Styling my hair using hair gel and hair serum is best for me. I use Streax hair serum normally. I have planned to straighten my hair for a short while. If I do that I will share my experience with you surely. For others I would like to suggest any kind of hairstyle you can try as you like. You can go to parlour or try it at home. Different tying methods are possible with different kind of hair. But straight hair is easy to tackle and try new hairstyles. Curly hair is naturally beautiful. So too much styling is not necessary.  The hair style normally depends on which costume you are donning.Pamper your hair a little to flaunt new hair styles.

 I like to wear makeup whenever needed. In my make up kit I carry foundation,face powder, kajal, eyeshadow, blusher, lipstick, lip cum eye liner, eyebrow pencil, a lip balm and moisturizer as a make up base, brushes, makeup sponge , eyeliner pen etc.  Normally I use lipstick and kajal and sunscreen powder. But when it comes to party I give a little more time to makeup my face. First I clean my face with astringent in a cotton wool piece. Then spray Rose water on face. After a few seconds I apply moisturizer as makeup base. After that I wait a little and apply foundation. When the foundation is absorbed by Skin I apply face powder and highlight my face by it. . After the base gets ready I apply blusher and eyeshadow of suitable colour. I have wheatish complexion and I like to wear colourful costumes. So the blusher and eyeshadow colour varies time to time. Then I apply kajal and coloured eye pencil liner. I use liquid eyeliner very rarely and never use mascara. I like to show m...

 My fashion definition is slightly different from others.I believe in fashion that compliments one' s personality. Any garment you choose should tally with your attitude,mood and figure. One may be slim or fat , the fashion she or he chooses is completely dependent on his or her mood and appearance.  I choose different kinds of apparel that suits my figure and attitude. The colour of costume not only depends on your complexion, you may be dark or fair , but the garment should match with the way you are carrying it. If you are in a high mood,you can choose a simple indo western or western costume for the day. If you are in low mood you can carry a calm outfit of cool colour. It is completely dependent on your habit of wearing a costume daily. In the matter of exposure, I do not follow the trend of over exposing my body to look bold.I love to cover the majority of my body almost all the time. The place doesn't much matter for me . I don't like over exposure and showing body p...

 Shree Geeta is our Scripture, Exploring the quality of Soul, The Words of Shree Krishna, Exploring the Karma Yoga, Personification of the Universe, The origin of God felt in diversity, The unity of Human beings felt in necessity. The causality of creation, The seeds of Human deeds, Shree Krishna 's friendly views, Teaching to Partha in needs. The Battlefield of Kurukshetra is symbolised as life greater, The Souls' necessity is felt better. Having Eighteen chapters, Explaining the need of war, Even destroying the negativity, The Words of Mahabharata, Being the nectar of life! The Greatest force of non violence Discussed in a new way , The very essence of detachment , Taught again and again. Then the Manifestation of God, At the time of evilness spread, God himself assures his presence, On the Earth he comes and goes, In the body of Avatars, In every Era and every confluence, God himself comes for the need of world, And establish the purification again. That is Shree Geeta,our S...

  " আচ্ছা বলুন তো ,ভূতের বাপের ছেরাদ্দ খেতে কার না ভালো লাগে ?" " ওহে অনন্ত , এদিকে আর দুটো লুচি দিয়ে যা বাবা " - এমনি করেই ভোজসভা এগিয়ে চলে । লোকজন হইহই করে খাচ্ছে আর মেম বউ প্যান্টের ওপর শাড়ি পরে ওপরে নিচে দৌড়াদৌড়ি করছে । এমন দিন তো বার বার আসবেনা ! চলুন ঘুরে আসি ভূতের বাপের ছেরাদ্দ হচ্ছে সেই বাড়ি তে - বাড়ির ছাদে প্যান্ডেল হয়েছে , সেই যে বিদেশে থাকা ছেলের মেমবউ এসেছে , শাড়ি গুটিয়ে প্যান্ট পরে সিঁড়ি দিয়ে ওঠানামা করছে , অঢেল টাকা , তাই কিনা বাপ মরতেই ভারতবর্ষে এসে এ হেন শ্রাদ্ধের আয়োজন । আয়োজন টা ডলার ভাঙ্গিয়ে ইন্ডিয়ান মানি তে হোলো , তবে খাওয়াদাওয়ার ধুম দেখে মনে হচ্ছে এ যেন বিয়ে বাড়ি লেগেছে । মেমবউ তো আর বাংলা বলতে পারে না , তাই অনুবাদকের কাজ করছে তার বড়় দেওর অজয় । " আরে আলুর দম আরেকটু হয়ে যাক "- একজন হাঁক পারলে ভোজ সভায় -" কবজি ডুবিয়ে খাও ভাই, এ হেন ভোজ ভাগ্যে থাকলে জোটে ।" এ হেন মন্তব্য পাওয়া যাচ্ছে আশপাশ থেকে , বাপের মৃত্যুর দুঃখ ভুলে সবাই আনন্দে মেতেছে ।   "অজোয়" - মেমবউ তার দেওর কে ডাকলো -" হোয়্যার আর ইউ ?" - " আই ...

  Yesterday evening I and my Husband attended a Birthday celebration of Our bonu, Smt. Sipra Mondol, wife of Sanjay Mondol. In the evening my husband carried me in his scooty from Muchi para to Maheshtala,a journey of half an hour. We reached Sanjay Dadavai 's Quarter and met them. Then went to Bojboj Maa Kaali temple to keep a Puja for them. Their Son Saptarshi also went with us. The temple had a very peaceful and quiet atmosphere nearby Ganges. We kept Puja and watched Arati of Maa kaali by the priest. We prayed for our well-being, distributed Prasad to all and then went to Red chilli pepper AC family Restaurant by Dadavai 's car.  Reaching the restaurant we gifted Bonu a birthday cake which she cut there. We sang "happy birthday to bonu". After that started having starters like pepper chicken,a special item of that Restaurant. Along with chicken I had paneer too. Then ordered crispy chicken and chicken tandoori. We took Coriander Chutney and Raita and Masala Thums ...

  কোন সে সুদূর অতীতে জন্মলগ্ন তোমার, বিশেষ এক মাহেন্দ্রক্ষণে জন্মিলে তুমি, শ্রীকৃষ্ণের অমৃতবানী লিখিত হোলো স্বর্ণাক্ষরে, জীবনের সারসত্য , বাস্তববাদী তত্ত্ব- পরিবেশিত ও পরিচালিত হোলো প্রজন্মের পর প্রজন্মে , শ্রী গোবিন্দের অভূতপূর্ব জীবনাশ্বাস, মোহ , বিষাদ , বিকট কে বর্জন করে, আত্মার প্রকাশ ভঙ্গিমা ব্যক্ত করে, প্রকট হলে তুমি, দেখালে বিশ্বরূপের মহিমা। তরতর করে এগিয়ে চললো আমাদের ধর্মগ্রন্থের প্রচার, জীবন্মুক্তির এক অপার্থিব আনন্দ ছুঁয়ে গেলো যুগান্তর , আত্মবিস্মৃত জীবাত্মার পরিচলন সুগম হল, নিঃসৃত হোলও জীবন্মৃত্যুর নির্যাস- " বাসাংসি জীর্নানি যথা বিহায় "। শ্রী পার্থর যুদ্ধক্ষেত্রের বিমূঢ়তা হোলো দূরীভূত , প্রকাশিত হোলো পার্থসারথির নিরস্ত্র বিপ্লব, ছন্দবদ্ধ হোলো শ্লোক থেকে শ্লোকে , লোক হতে লোকান্তরে হোলো পরিব্যপ্ত । কর্মযোগের মর্মার্থ প্রকটিত হোলো পলে পলে , গড়ে উঠলো আমাদের ধর্মগ্রন্থ , " পরিত্রানায় সাধুনাং , বিনাশায়চ দুস্কৃতাম্ , ধর্ম সংস্থাপনারথায় সম্ভবামি যুগে যুগে "- অবতারত্বের রহস্য হোলো উন্মোচিত । এক আদি অকৃত্রিম শান্তিরস ধরা দিলো ধরিত্রী কে , অমোঘ সকল বানী হোলো শেষে ...

 On 19th September we celebrated Ganesh Puja in honour of opening of the Medicine centre at Sonarpur. The centre is named SAPTARSHI MEDICARE , after the name of only son of my husband's friend Sanjay Mondol. At his house we enjoyed the full day with his wife and other guests. On 18 th September I went to Sonarpur to meet Sipra Mondol, Sanjay Dadavai and their son Saptarshi. I stayed there for the day and next day. My husband went there at 19th morning to attend the Puja. He got involved in the preparation of Puja.Other guests also came. After the Puja was done we came back to Dadavai 's home from the Medicine shop. Had special vegetarian Lunch with all. At lunch we had Basanti Polaao, Kashmiri Aloor dom, Dhoka gravy, Vegetable chop with Salad and Paneer Paaturi, Sweets, Chutney and Papad. Cold drinks were available at the party.Here are some snapshots of the special occasion. There I enjoyed a lot with my husband. Sipra Mondol (Bonu) was so friendly with me that I forgot my own...

 প্রনমি তব চরণে, আজ তোমার সমাধি "ফুলে ফুলে ঢাকা" প্রতিক্ষণ বলে তুমি আছো! কত সে বছর আগে-  চোখের জলে বিদায় দিলাম  তোমার সে সবুজ সরস দেহখানি, ছোট্ট জরির কাপড়, বিছানা আর ফুলের সুগন্ধে। তুমি নীরবে শুলে স্তব্ধ হয়ে, শেষ যাত্রায় হলাম মর্মাহত, তোমার মিস্টি সুরেলা গলায় মিস্টি কত কথা - নিভৃতালাপ, কত জন্মের বন্ধু তোমার স্মৃতিতে, রেখে গেলাম এই মালা, জুড়াক সব জ্বালা। আমার বিনম্র শ্রদ্ধাঞ্জলি, তোমার মিস্টি মধুুর স্মৃতিতে, হয়ে থাক তা উজ্জ্বল্ স্মরনাঞ্জলি।। ( আমার প্রিয় পোষ্য টিয়াপাখি ভকুর স্মরনে ) Video of the Tomb

 There was a Giant flower in a flower garden. Once a princess came to the garden and wanted to purchase the big flower from the handsome gardener. But the gardener said this flower is the main attraction of the garden. So ,he will not sell it. The princess was offended and she left that garden.  The giant flower said to the handsome gardener,"If again someone comes to purchase me from you then tell them I have a curse ,so my size grows bigger every month. So , selling me will not be good for anybody, for the seller or the buyer. ""Also tell that look at other flowers, they are also beautiful,so, you can purchase them too. " The gardener agreed. Next year the gardener exhibited his Giant flower in a Flower Show. Many people wanted to purchase the flower at high price but the gardener told the sentences he was taught by the flower. People were convinced and kept away from the Giant flower. They looked at other flowers and bought them too. But the Giant flower always r...

 Silence is the result of deep solitude. From everyday din and bustle we love to stay away for a while. At that time we plunge into absolute silence into the lap of nature. Silence speaks more than words. It calms the mind. Decreases polution,the harsh effect of sound. In day to day life we cannot find silence. To be in silence we have to go to closeness of nature,Where crowd cannot disturb us. Silence is the Art of conversation of God. We can feel God's presence in deep silence. We can pray to God steadily when we are in silence. Silence is the medicine of brain. It soothes the whole body and brain very quickly. But there are people who don't pay heed to silence. Even they do not like to spend time in silence. This type of people never go to solitude. They always spend time in Chaos and crowd. It generates a restlessness in their mind. That results in hurry and many diseases of brain and heart, disorder of personality.This kind of people never enjoy the beauty of nature,the Ar...

 The Water World seems Funny, Two flowers, two fish running. They're chasing a long necked bird, A beautiful Duck, living a life hard. The fish want to eat her up, But she is not running after a cup. The beautiful bird is eating only moss, She is the queen never to cross. This pond water is very dirty, Fish drink but the bird remains thirsty. She waits for her good fortune, The fish are trying to catch her at noon. Only the moss the Duck is eating, She is not moving, only sitting. You can see the fish try to laugh, Under cold water the duck is having cough. But the bird will be freed up soon, She from God will receive a boon. She was left alone by some curse, But atleast she will be having a nurse. The queen Bird will fly out of water, She will be feeding by rich with butter. To The water world she will say goodbye,  fish will be frustrated leaving a deep sigh. Hers will be a own world atlast, Where her nurse will look after fast. All the oddities she is suffering, It is her h...

 Mother Durga,the Ultimate Mother is arriving on Earth in the next month. The Greatest festival of Bengal is Durga Puja. Mother is starting her journey with immense strength to slay The Evil disturbing the Earth. In this Holy period all people enjoy their life to the fullest. All wear new dresses,both rich and poor people. But some street children are still neglected who neither get food nor clothes. The tremendously pompous Puja Decoration and Pandals are expensive and gorgeous.But we forget those who still require food, shelter and clothing. Mother Durga will really be happy if all her children are equally pampered. She never becomes happy with big Pandals, her real happiness lies in feeding properly her poor children. She is the symbol of Divineness and courage who fights all odds of life, making us a perfect match for mother Nature. She herself is the embodiment of the Shakti, the divine power who is the cause of creation. Parama Prakriti is her true name to be called. So, wors...

 My regards to Devil, since you are the controller of Evils. Evil is the dark side of life,of Universe. It's deeply adhered to our basic part of mind.So, every living being is carrying the darkness within it.Only goodness cannot be carried on throughout the life. Like positive energy and negative energy - two sides of one coin, cannot be denied. But the manifestation error creates the problem. Huge amount of negativity cause manifestation error i.e too much overworked negative energy that toxicates people. Mostly Human beings are affected by evil. By another human who becomes negativity personified after longtime overuse of his or her darkside of character. Birth after birth goes on , the harshness of negativity cannot be diminished - this is the very reality. The world is a place of darkness where bright positivity and its manifestation is a very rare or occasional episode . Already The money power has been attached with Devilish people and Sex power has been distorted which immen...

 Once there was a little girl who had a magical painting brush. She got the brush from her drawing teacher as a gift for her amazing painting talent. That brush had a magical quality to convert a painted picture to real life object. But the teacher didn't tell the fact to his student. So the girl first drew a beautiful zentangle bird on a paper. The magic happened then. The bird became real and flew away from the drawing paper , flapping its wings. The girl was very much surprised. But she got nervous to draw anything else because that can harm her too. She kept the brush very carefully in the almirah and locked it from outside. In the night she dreamt the Goddess of painting who told her to paint a big cage with that brush. Next morning she kept her promise and took out the brush from almirah. She painted a beautiful big cage and as expected it became real cage kept in front of her. Then one thing happened. The zentangle Bird came back to her and with its beak it opened the door o...

 'Vibgyor' is the colour of life, With perfect balance and harmony, That our Master created for us, He was to compose a Utopia, But some error fascinated life, So it become colourless but saturated. The very true lesson of life, Love, Truth, Honesty gets distorted, When the disharmony appears, Storm shakes the beauty, The very Neutopia is never arranged. Behind the colourful flowers Lurks the veil of Envy, Dark theme, commonplace saga, Discoloration of the grainy green tree, Purchases the economical Base, Life's is the Ironical case. You are sure to compromise when you fail To hold the Truth in your Soul, Utter Disdain might attack you, So always use a fulstop, To the non ending cheating of heartbeats.

 'Mother' is not only a woman who gives birth to children, 'Mother' symbolises the universe holding the solutions of all problems faced by her children. She protects her children from life's ups and downs. She is the only support at the time of emotional crisis, time of sorrow, time of tears. She shares even the joy of her children. Mother is the First Teacher of us. She supports her children's love life, she takes care of others too. She is the base ,a homemaker fine-tuning her husband's life along with children. But there are Mothers also who do not give birth to children but they become the symbol of ideal motherhood by nobility of their character. Sri Sri Maa Sarada, Sri Maa Mira Alfassa, Mother Teresa are some examples of universal motherhood. Immense love and strength is provided by them to the world, they are the symbol of Divineness and Purity. Whatever adverse situation comes in life, even a motherless child gets the joy of omnipotent motherhood by ...

 The Macaw is a paragon of beauty, Colourful feathers, sharp beak, The Macaw has a voice of imitation, Human sound, style of conversation, Every movement of her is elegant, Which is fanciful to an human infant! She catches the chords of our heart, Becomes dearest friend, it's her Art, She can dance and play with music, Obey her master, which is fantastic, Hers is the flying style like cloud, She can say "love you",crying loud! The Macaw is not an object of negligence, Even it can catch up the human duty, She Can tell forward what is happening, Can become friend, emotion deepening , She is a vivacious Bird chirping sweetly, Displaying all colours, cutest naturally!