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A Memorable Marriage

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  My husband's head assistant Sukanta recently celebrated his sister's marriage where we all were present from my husband's side.  The marriage hall was very gorgeous and a lot of people coming there. That evening was really special. Special starters like Momo both chicken and veg, crispy paneer,fuchka coffee all we enjoyed. Peas kachuri,chana daal,polau, chicken and paneer for veg were arranged. We spent almost 4 to 5 hours there then got back to home. Sutapa and Utsav reception party was the next charm. There we reached at 8:30 pm. Veg and chicken pakoda with coffee and fuchka was welcome items. We blessed the bride and groom whole heartedly.  There too we enjoyed the same kind of food mentioned above. Sutapa and Utsav were looking bright in their beautiful dresses. All our closer aquintance were present there.  These two days party with my husband is really memorable for me.

DEATH OF BHOKU- My Pet Parrot

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 Bhoku was my pet parrot in childhood days.I always prayed for her long life. And prayed that her death should be calm and sound when the day will come. God granted my wish. When she died. Only one day she suffered from fever. Then left us forever. But her soul was always with me. I was in 12 th standard when she died. We decorated her bed with pillows and flowers. Decorated her as a Goddess with ghagra choli, crown and other ornaments, Lying down on a small bed. Then made this tomb. With a tub, and cement, buried her. under soil where she is still lying down peacefully. With garland and diya I pay respect to her on her death day. This tomb is like a temple to me.  I cherish her memory and Much respect for her new life.

ONCE IN A SUNNY MORNING(Poem)

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 Once in a sunny morning, I was playing with dewdrops, My mood was a little tensed  But I was ready to cross the fence. Sun was shining brightly,  I was trying to hold it tightly, I was hankering after an impossible thought, I wanted to catch the sun,  I was ready to brought. Earth seemed a globe so hot Sun looked cool, beautiful thought Was coming to my mind  My heart became more kind. After the day the sunset came, I wished that every day it happen the same.

Biography of Sunset

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   I am a pure Sunset. The Earth is getting dusky in absence of me. I will rise again next morning. Don't perform farewell service to me. Because I am to rise again next day. I will try to wipe off all darkness of Earth forever.  Everybody knows me as a regular celestial happening. I love to perform my duty. I never get tired to perform the same duty era after era.  I am so colourful to enjoy. After me the moon rise in the night sky. That time I take rest and gain energy for my next day duty.  So many poets and writers get inspired by me. So many creative persons get mood for charming creations.  But some gets sad as I set . But there is nothing to worry about. I always live in the sky. But the Earth's movement cause the sunset.  I am humbly proud of my Beauty. The other stars get covered by my bright light in day time. But you are able to watch them as I hide myself.  It's the eternal incident that will happen ever. So is my biography. I am the w...

SIDE EFFECTS OF CREATIVITY

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  Today I am going to discuss the side effects of creativity. Creativity is always a positive sign of our nature. But there are side effects too of excessive creativity. It can harm the natural character of a human being. Creative persons hold a special kind of frenzy which makes him fanatic. This fanaticism can harm the normal life. Sometimes it occurs brain problem which affects a character. Creative mood is a very different thing which is at a very distant condition of Normal people. Suppose you are having a mood of composing a poem . A special vibration is occurring to you. But at that time you have to go to school or do some other duty compulsory.  It badly affects your mood. Years after years pass by and then it can cause mood disorder which can become a severe problem , even a disease. Too many plots and characters coming into the mind of a writer can harm her day to day life. Creativity can become an obsession for some people. Frenzy can create a multiple disturbance i...

FISH ROE FRY (Recipe)

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 Ingredients: Fish Roe, oil to fry, Besan, chopped onion and chilli, egg, salt, chilli powder,cumin powder. Procedure: Smear the fish Roe with salt first. Then fry it in refind oil and make it smashed as granules. Make it cool. Then add chopped onion and chilli, chilli powder, cumin powder,egg,Besan .  Mould the whole thing tightly and deep fry in refind or rice oil in the shape of pakora. Serve with sauce and mayonnaise. It's a very simple and delicious preparation as snacks. The quantity of the whole thing is depended on your taste.

THE SUN (poem)

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 Oh! Fire Globe, Your light is our robe, You are the life You are the hope. Thy presence is  The very essence of Existence and origin, Yours is the brightness That symbolise glory within. You mean The God of all, You mean the heaven tall, Yours is the image of a star You symbolise a pride without scar.

THE SKY (poem)

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 Ample scope of roaming and soaring, But you need one pair of wing only,  You can send your mind to the sky Which can wander without wing, lonely. Sky is never empty, it's full of clouds  It's full of planets and stars,so many birds, That makes us feeling proud and proud. Sky is the birthplace of wind, to reach hard. Sky is the limit of life,sky is full of beauty, Sky is thought to be heaven, abode of God, Never forget to look at night sky-your duty, Never forget to look at the Sun, fire abroad. Sky is always endless, bigger than ocean, Sky is the image of life, celestial glory, Sky remarks the definition of man, Sky is always telling you a story.

My Spiritual Search

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 My search is very simple. I want revolutionary changes of mankind. There is so many complications in our day to day life. And so many clashes. Joy and bliss is running slow in our life. There is one solution of all tensions,The Divine life , which is not yet come upon Earth. Obligations are so many. The evil is fascinating human beings from the very birth.   Without God's blessings and wish, we will not be able to reach that blissful stage of life. It seems to be almost impossible to get in Divine life but anyhow we have to reach that stage. When universal glory of fraternity will spread over the world. Be as simple as possible. I am a simple person. But still I want to achieve more simplicity to be happy and tension free in life.

My First Experience with Flight

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 When our trip to Dooars was confirmed,I was a bit nervous because it was first time that I was going to ride an aeroplane. At very early morning we went to airport with husband and friends. Planes were landing and that was a beautiful sight. Our plane was late , so we had to wait one hour to get our plane. When we rode the plane my nervousness was vanished and I enjoyed the ride. The team of Airhostess was very friendly and informed us everything we needed. When the plane started rising high I felt no jolting or no shakiness at all. My husband was by my side. Others were at nearby seat . I took this photograph from the window of the plane.  It was like close to heaven when the plane rose high over the cloud . The Earth were going down and down. It was like realm of clouds we were riding. At one word the first flight experience was speechless and smooth and ever memorable. We landed at Bagdogra airport at the end of the journey.

RULI'S LOVE ( Micro story)

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 Ruli was a girl who  fell in love with a jungle. She was so obsessed with her feeling that she went to that extent to not to marry any human being ever. She roamed about in the jungle and talked to the trees. She treated the jungle as her groom and made love with trees. Once the tallest trees Ruli loved the most whispered in her ear ," we are nature, we  can provide you peace' and safety but cannot fulfill your physical desire like human beings. Ruli understood the feeling but she was so deeply in love with jungle that she remained determined not to marry a human being. Once in that jungle Ruli found a magical tree who could take a human form, that tree came near to Ruli and made love like humans. Within a very short time Ruli became pregnant. She was happy without words. She gave birth to another magical tree who could take human form and talk, having feelings. Thus Ruli got involved in the tree world and passed her days very happily. No human could harm her, nobody mad...

ABOUT MENTAL TENSION

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 Mankind 's greatest distress is mental tension which is increasing itself day by day, throughout the world .Various reasons cause tension which acts like a monster slowly eating mental peace and resulting in various diseases. Actually tension arises from our wanting of life . Simple living generates simple mentality which is almost absent now a days. The ego within us increases tall ambitions which we want to achieve by hook and crook and thus automatically face murderous tension happening to us. But other than that there are simple reasons which also cause tension. Suppose you are wanting something very deeply but not getting it properly . It naturally would result a suppressed tension within you.  Tension has become a a disease now a days which is most difficult to overcome. I have faced various personal tensions since childhood Which have caused great hazards to me. Overcoming tension has two ways only. One ,is to solve the route cause of tension or if not possible ,counse...

ছোটবেলার ছড়া ২

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  বিলের সত্য পরীক্ষা বিলের বাবার বন্ধু যত আসেন হুঁকো খেতে, তাই না দেখে বিলে বলে - "একটা হুঁকোয় সবাই পারে না খেতে?" আসলে তাদের বাড়ি তে ছিল , বহু হুঁকো সারে সারে, একটা হুঁকোয় সবাই নাকি তামাক খেতে নারে ! তাহলে নাকি জাত চলে যায়, সবাই তারে একঘরে কয়। বিলে ভাবে , জাত মানে কি? এর মানে টা কেউ জানে কি ? দেখবো আমি যাচাই করে, কি করে লোক হয় একঘরে! একদিন সে সব হুঁকো গুলো টেনে টেনে দেখে , কেউ বারণ করলে পরে বিলে কি গায়ে মাখে? তাই না দেখে বিলের বাবা কহিলেন তায়- " অপর জাতের হুঁকো খেলে  জাত যে চলে যায়" বিলের ছিল যে ঝোঁক ছোটবেলা থেকে, সব কিছু পরীক্ষা করে দেখা নিজে থেকে। জাতি ধর্ম সবই মেকি, সব ই মোদের মন গড়়া, জাতের নামে বজ্জাতি সব, ঐক্য চাই তাই দেশ জোড়া, শেষ করছি আমার ছড়া । এপ্রিল ফুল এপ্রিল ফুল,এপ্রিল ফুল ফুল হলে তো পাবে না কুল, কবের থেকে আসছে চলে  এই প্রথার ই ধারা। ফুল যারা করতে পারে বুদ্ধিমান তো তারা ! যাকে তুমি করছ ফুল ফুল হবে যেই সে , তখন তুমি উঠবে বলে , "এপ্রিল ফুল , এপ্রিল ফুল, ফুল হলে তো পাবে না কুল! অনেক সময় কেটে গেল, শেষ করি মোর ছড়া , এপ্রিল ফুল করা কিন্তু থাকবে বাধাধর...

Language (Poem in free verse)

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 Who knows what's the time? The Creative Mother blessed us, With a very special thing, That is language! After eras' effect, Man evolved a symbol, Sounds to express himself, Creatrix was successful In creating language.! The Mystery is that how it's growth started! The Omkar sign took a process to create it, A vast silence, then a sudden rapture: We got words from symbols,  To express ourselves! The most wonderful incident is  That we have language.  We have sound to tell! We have sound to create ! The glorious civilization Has first hand beauty! That is language, Language is a boon to society!  We are proud to have our own language! Justified, evolved very simply,  Nurtured by Maa Saraswati, There is one demand still, We need a new language Strong enough to speak soul words.

TRIP TO DEEGHA

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  We enjoyed a lot at DEEGHA for 2 days. We were 7 members.We went to Howrah station by car from Behala. Caught the train Howrah Tamralipta express and reached DEEGHA within 5 hours. We caught the train at 6:30 am. We  took 2 room at the Hotel AASTHA 2. The hotel was with AC and A small swimming pool. The total arrangements were good. We kept our luggage in our room and got ready for sea wave enjoyment. The beach was full of people and fun. Dancing with wave was not new to us . But our team was fully happy to bathe in the wave.We all played with Sand. There we had cucumber, aam maakha, shakhalu at beach and a photographer shot our still moments very smartly. We got printout within a few hour that day . After that we had lunch returning to hotel. Rice,sabji,daal,aaloo vaja,salad all were good. The serving system was cool. Then we had a nap and in evening we went to sea beach,had Fuchka, photography, and our child member rode a toy car on the beach.  After returning hotel w...

Holi Festival (Poem)

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 Holi has many colours As we used to see,  But a fervent act is behind it, Which we forget to plea. Holika the monster Was killed by the pious Burnt by fire, destroyed A reason to all cheer. Radha and Krishna playing Holi Symbolises love and colour, Demon burnt by fire, Is an act of valour! As we play with many colours On the day of Holi, Our desire to reach heaven Rises very high, solely. Children get coloured With baloon and pichkari, A special act of joy A Special festival, not a toy. Special for all the world Special for human race Even animals should participate Without any grim trace.

HUSBAND 'S BIRTHDAY

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  From the very morning of 17 th March I was preparing for a special auspicious lunch as it was my husband's birthday. It was 5 kinds of vaja(sabji fry), payesh, dahi katla.  Suddenly at 9 AM morning Sanjay dadavai and bonu came with cake and candle. Our neighbour shiuli di and Raju da and their son Debraj also came and kept a surprise celebration of his birthday. My husband cut the cake and we all enjoyed the moment. After breakfast  they went out for work and the celebration remained unforgettable. At afternoon I lit up a Diya with ghee and served him the lunch. The day remained ever memorable seriously.

DADAVAAI'S BIRTHDAY

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 Sanjay dadavai 's birthday was well arranged at the evening. I and my husband went to their quarter at sarengabad on a bikeride and met them with some friends. Then we all went to Bajbaj maa kali temple for a birthday Puja. Then went to red chilli pepper Restaurant for enjoyment. Their we had all kinds of starters. Red chilli pepper chicken, chicken kabab, dragon chicken, chicken tandoori, pan fried paneer, baby corn with naan, chicken reshmi kabab with gravy,salad etc. Pepsi was also there. Dadavai cut two cakes,one brought from them with his photograph pasted on it, another brought from their friends with mango taste. The evening was too happy to describe in words.

The Snow Land(micro story)

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 There was a snow land almost chilled with winter. There was a hut where a boy was living alone. One day he came out and made a snow doll outside the ground. All on a sudden the snow doll started talking and the boy was surprised to see this . The snow doll asked if you want warm clothes I can provide you with it. But never ask for summer because it will destroy me. The boy was really poor and he asked warm clothes beautiful. The magical doll wrapped him with red warm sweater and pant. The boy happily asked for fruits in the tree to eat in winter. The trees got filled with leaves and winter fruits. The boy felt happy but lonely,so he asked for a friend like him. The snow doll now got angry with the boy's greed. He asked to be happy what he already had and make friends with nature.  The boy agreed and remorsed for his greed. Thus the magical snowdoll became God of that place and his only companion was the little boy. Eternal winter and snow covered that land which is unable to ...

মিঠে কড়া ভূতের ছড়া

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 কচাকচ্ খচাখচ হাড়খানা চিবিয়ে, পেত্নীটা উঁকি মারে ডালপালা সরিয়ে, খুলিগুলো ঝোলে যেন গাছে গাছে ফুল, চঁাদ যেন আকাশেতে ডুমুরের ফুল, নিশুতি রাতেই চলে পেত্নীর ভোজসভা, আকাশ বাতাস জুড়ে ,  গন্ধ সে ভরে ভরে, ভূত গুলো দলে ভারী, এলো সব সারি সারি, আধুনিক পেত্নী ,বলি রাজকন্য়ে! কবে হবে দিন আর কবে কার জন্য়ে?

OUR MARRIAGE ANNIVERSARY

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 It was our 4th marriage anniversary on 11th March. We went on a long bike ride in the evening. First we had Fuchka and icecream at roadside. Then went long to Bajbaj, Red chilli pepper Restaurant where we spent the evening. There we had Red chilli chicken, chicken kabab,chili mushroom as starter. In the main course we took mixed chowmin, chicken gravy kabab,naan, chilli paneer.  Lime juice and masala coke as beverage. The evening was so sweet by the company of my husband.

How The God Created(Poem)

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 Existence started, pious mind, Land and water, needful bind, Leaves and cloud,soft and kind. Life started in water, land and air, Goddess herself exerted her for God's cheer, The truthful beauty, perennial bond dare. Lushy forest,Lotus as base, Lower to higher mind ,combined in case,     to search for the Divine race. All these created vision - The Divine Mother, Representing existence of God,The Father, Creation started with all love and care.

A flower (poem)

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 A yellow faint hue, A sunlight over, Green leaves is her backdrop, Petals are soft like feather, An authentic harmony unable to crop. But thieves are unable to touch, To snatch your pinch of colour , Exceptional devotion God has put, While creating the existence - a flower.

MENTAL EDUCATION

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 Normally at school we receive informative education which helps us to grow along with society and find a money generating career But this doesn't provide the history of mental growth with which we are approaching to life, death and next birth. An useful study of subconscious of every student should be included in our syllabus as a compulsory subject . Student should study their own psychology, inner growth and be law abiding truly. A basic book of psychology can help initially and then a meditative teacher should help them how to study inner consciousness. Why guilt feeling occurs, how can we overcome it, how to be loyal and maintain it. What is honesty, how to hold it, being clear minded, maintain transparency,moralistic approach to life - all are necessary. Activity,play method, calculation, language study all are necessary, but a calm and fresh mind is the most necessary to all. Which we start to lack while growing up, complications of mind shapes our personality, emotional dem...

An Elephant (poem)

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 Huge shape, soft heart That is our Elephant, Huge ear, long trunk A short tail,not to chunk. Four footed ,long teeth, Easy to tame, easy to sit. Fat after fat, layer after layer, His back always carries a chair. Little eyes, piercing glance, Full of energy, scary at chance. Being wild it is destroyer, Being calm your preserver. The most intelligent, sweety round, It walks lengthy, touching the ground.   Largest animal, vegetarian fine, Beauty of the jungle, creating shine.

LOVE YOUR LONLINESS

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 1. LONLINESS is a gift that we all cherish.When you are alone you feel oneness with you soul. 2. Whenever alone don't be shy or don't cry. Feel the pleasure, count your thoughts that is impossible in crowd. 3.Enjoy your atmosphere, don't call others, be lonesome, don't prevent tears coming to your eyes. Then automatically pleasure will flow next. 4.keep yourself disconnected from every being,be silent for 5 minutes minimum. Ask yourself who am I? What I am doing? And why? 5. LONLINESS brings peace. Being alone may approach to depression.Permanent loneliness can be harmful but not for all. A bit LONLINESS is a blessing. 6. Loneliness is a boon to compose yourself.

A Dancing Doll (Short story)

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There was a girl named Shilpi who realised that her grandmother is none other than the concrete Avatar of DEVI MAHAMAYA. The initial form of Maa Durga. At the day of Maha saptami she was born and died on Maha Panchami. Her name was Komola. She lived 81 years. The girl was very close to her granny and attached to her strong dignified nature. The days went on and granny kept her promise. She took rebirth in form of the girl's niece, i.e her cousin 's daughter with Same dignity, same touch me not attitude.  A life of endurance and  renunciation - a lot of struggle and strength, almost indescribable - Devi mahamaya bestowed only one boon on her children,that all may live long and live very simply without luxury. When she was reincarnated in a small girl she started spreading all her positive energy through gymnastics and exercise, very spontaneously , without training. Once shilpi dreamt that her niece has got the a portion of mahamaya by birth. That niece looked like a dancing do...

A RESEARCH ON DEVI DHOOMAVATI

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 I am presenting a short research on Devi Dhoomavati. As we all know she is the governing goddess of Ketu. Her colour is mystic grey and her origin is almost unknown to us. We can reach a safe circle by worshipping her as the deity who controls conspiracies and foes. She represents an image of old woman who protects us from hidden politics and enemies.  GOD LOOKS IN MYSTERIOUS WAYS. Now , the most interesting fact is that Devi Dhoomavati also created her Avatar in a human form. That form went enigmatic throughout her life. In Bengal she was born. The Bengali movie Actress, the legend,the Mahanayika - she had a strong dignified command and lived a life gorgeous enough to envy. Her thought , her style, her self taught talent was so prominent not to deny. By her side she got  very few well wisher who made her a Bengal Tigress coming from Pabna jela,purbabongo, Bangladesh. She had a tremendous power to endure pain and torture. Still she reached the final goal of glam world. L...

Misuse (poem)

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 Misuse is an act Mishap is react Miss you misuse Misuse intact. Misuse of money Brings misbless Misuse of nerve Brings distress. Misuse of water Brings drought Misuse of fire Brings dusky dot. Misuse of mind Creates pervert blind Misuse of thirst Brings bloody flood. Misuse of soft  Springs holy thought Misuse of hard Creates a poet, bard. Misuse of air  Brings suffoc fast Misuse of green Results a lack last. Misuse of cloth Skimpy winter Misuse of sweater Haste and hot. Misuse of dust Results thick mud Misuse of shoe Revolution atlast.

How to attend a Party (Rule regulation)

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1. Just go to the party and start Dance. 2. Eat, Drink and be merry. 3. Remember yourself , connect everybody. 4. Do not forget your body and say ' On the merry go round let's rock our Soul.' 5. Be aware of the people arround you. 6. Loud laughter is like a medicine in a Party. 7. Enjoy, then return to your normal self.

About Medicine (Discussion)

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 1. Medicine provides support to our health. It guides our day. 2. Without medicine we cannot survive. It's wrong to attach yourself to medicines. But a detached support is necessary. 3. Our route problem is connected to mind,not to body. Mental health strengthens our physical health.  4. Homeopathic medicine provides lengthy treatment, Allopathic is for short term solution, biochemic is effective for mild problems. 5. Normal vitamins and health tonics are good for maintaining your hectic schedule. 6. A small sleeping tablet at bedtime keeps you most happy and tension free. 7. Use your sense to detect medicine which is suitable for you. Study the name and composition of the medicine prescribed by your doctor. After a bit experience you will be able to diagnose your problem. 8. Study internet to know the side effects of those medicines and regulate the power at  time of intake.

PICNIC AND PHOTOGRAPHY

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We enjoyed a picnic on 26th January. I, my husband and our friends arranged a open air party which is called Choruivaati in Bengali. The venue was Ramnagar near Moynagor in Behala. It was a small house and connected garden full of Trees and flowers. We danced, we ate ,we drank. The party was volumed with music.  In breakfast we had Luchi , Aaloo kosha, sweets. Lunch time went with fried rice, paneer kosha, chicken kosha, mutton kosha, salad, rosogolla, sondesh and drinks like Limca, ThumsUp, Sprite etc. This is the house where we went for picnic. I enjoyed Nature Photography in between the program.   I got back to foody hour after photography.   When it was dark I took only two photos seen below. The day was full of happiness and fun.