HOW TO BRING YOUR CHILD UP (TIPS)

 Caring your child is not much tough a job,as we think,but we make it more complicated by thinking more critically than the need.

Children are the gifts of God to hold the place of next generation.So , from the very beginning we have to be careful about them.

1.When your child is an infant try to feed him or her with homely foods. Rice boiled with milk,Suji,Sattu , melted merry biscuit, all are good for your little one. Tin food is not necessary. But if you are a working lady,may be providing home food is always not possible . Breast milk is very much necessary. Don't forget that.

2.When she or he grows a little more, provide with simple toys like wooden doll, plastic ball, simple cloth toys are better than puppets, keep in mind that the toys size should be bigger than her or his mouth,so,They can't swallow it.

3. Bathing your baby in Luke warm water is good for health, through out the year. In extreme heat,go for normal tap water. Use baby soap,oil, powder and shampoo as prescribed by your physician. Keep soft cloth piece or towel differently for your baby.

4. When your baby starts walking,try to keep him or her away from mobile phone. In modern world it becomes an addiction from childhood using mobile phone. Let your baby listen to good kid's music, rhymes in your mother tounge as far as possible. You can show the child picture books made with clothes or plastic lamination,so, the baby can not tear it.

5. From this stage try to find out what is your baby's field of interest. Don't rush or panic to admit the child in school very early. Let her or him enjoy the childhood. Tell moralistic stories to the baby whenever possible. Let him or her grow with strong imagination. It increases brain power.

6. Build up your baby's character strongly by letting him or her know what is wrong or what is right from now. Let your child make conscious about the value of money. 

It's my earnest request to go for an open school, don't waste much energy, money and time for regular schools. This world is a tough place,let your child know that. 

7., Releasing energy by physical game play and add some mental games too. For example; Memory game , Brain Vita, indoor games etc. Teach children Alphabets , Rhymes, speaking, writing with a slate and chalk or without slate, writing and drawing on floor if possible.

8. Then after few years of schooling enter him or her to an open school from 8 th standard. IGNOU open classes are good option for that. Thus let him or her save time for physical recreation like Swimming, Yoga, normal playing, Karate, Boxing etc.

9. Start thinking about involving your child in earning money from teenage. If you are a service holder or a business person,involve your child in the same profession. Or if the child have special interest in anything else,then you try to build up his or her career with the continuation of study. Let your child study higher or lower,as she or he likes, don't pressurize her for anything against will. But earning money is a must be step to be taken for your child. Please remember that.Do not waste money for marriage.Keep your marriage ceremony investment less.And fix the amount kept for expenditure on marriage function in Bank for your childrens' future. 

10. Don't let create any fake dream in the baby's mind. It kills the health and psychology. It's not necessary to settle in foreign country. But it's necessary to be by the side of parents in their old age. 

I am giving these suggestions after gaining very practical experience from life.

Teach  your children English language along with Mother language. Both are necessary.

Hope my advice will help you rearing your children correctly.